Today was an extremely trying day in our household. Sammy is teething and screeched like a teenage girl the entire day while Adri took advantage of the madness and went wild herself. The day was actually so trying that I had to give in and give Sam medicine to help ease his pain, send Adri to her room numerous times, force her into a nap, and then take the time to quickly look up bi-polar disorder in toddlers which led me to also look up oppositional defiant disorder, both of which can't really be diagnosed at this age. Lucky Adri, we'll just blame the terrible two's for her behavior right now. When do we get to quit blaming the age for her behavior though?
On a side note, if you haven't met Adri, here's a great video clip that I think Mad TV must have written about her...
So, I went to plan b and handed Sammy over to Matt as soon as he came in the door from work; quickly telling him that I was going to get the oil changed in the car, all the while running out before Adri could grab onto my leg and continue her screaming about "wanting to listen and she wants to come with me". Yes, I needed to get out and breathe for a few minutes after having absolutely no time to myself today. (Neither of the kids would nap at the same time today.)
A Biggby coffee and short time later I was at the dealership with a good book on parenting tactics and an hour to kill. I've never been so happy to have to wait such a long time to get the oil changed. :) I patiently sat and read my book, enjoying every minute of the me time I was experiencing.
After spending a few hours alone tonight I came to the realization that a horrible day at home is better than the best day at work without my babies. I came home to both kids in bed and Adri rushing out to tell me how much she missed me, asking me to sing her 3 songs (yes--3 songs. The girl knows exactly what she wants and is willing to negotiate to the point of making you crazy). I sang her her 3 songs, apologized for being a crazy mommy today, rubbed her back and kissed her and hugged her tight; appreciating that she loves me no matter what has happened throughout the day. I then snuck into Sam Man's room and kissed his little angelic sleeping face. He is just so beautiful, sweet and innocent. I always want to just pick him up and cuddle him while he's sleeping to steal a few more minutes with him.
Monday, November 29, 2010
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Introduction to our family...
We are the Van Dyke family; Matt, Michelle, Adrienne (2.5 years), and Samuel (7.5 months).
During Sam's 6 month well child appointment we were referred to a specialist for his "flat head". While we had asked our pediatrician about it at his 3 month appointment, he had said that we should wait and see if the flatness had gotten worse by his 6 month appointment. At his 6 month appointment there was a noticeable difference in both the head shape, his ears, and one of his eyes "drooping" a little lower than the other. Here are photos from earlier this summer when he was about 4 or 5 months old.
You can see that one eye is larger than the other and his ears seem to be very large also. A more recent photo shows how his head has changed quite a bit, with his ears protruding more.
Sam had slept on his back since birth as I was a strong believer in the "back to sleep" campaign. Immediately after his 6 month appointment we began putting him to sleep on his stomach and making sure he didn't spend any time laying on the back of his head. It has been about a month and we have not noticed any difference in the flatness after aggressive repositioning.
The final verdict was that Sam has Brachycephaly with Plagiocephaly and will need a helmet or DOC band to correct it. More information about this can be found here...http://www.cranialtech.com if you're interested. We should be receiving the DOC band either this week or early next week and will begin using it immediately for the next 5 or 6 months with the hopes that it will treat his condition and give him a perfectly rounded head in the end.
Matt and I have spent the past month or so feeling like horrible parents; embarrassed, and wondering what we could have done differently to prevent this. We are coming to terms with the fact that we did the best that we could and knew how to and that it is fixable and doesn't speak to who we are as parents. I like to think of it as a cast for Sam Man's head. We will have it on for a few months and then it will be done. Compared to actual diseases and various other things that could be wrong with my child, this is nothing.
This condition is not harmful to Sam or his brain growth. The helmet will not hurt him and after a few days he will actually get used to it. I have decided to decorate it will decals that I found online at Bling Your Band to help make it a little more fun and less "medical". http://i72.photobucket.com/albums/i183/bcforever213/Plagio-SaurusCollage.jpg And here is the link to the website that sells the various decals. http://www.blingyourband.com/
Subsequent posts will detail our adventures with Sam's diagnosis and treatment as well as other fun events that happen in our lives. My goal is to chronicle Sam's treatment in both pictures and blogs so we can look back to see how far he has come.
During Sam's 6 month well child appointment we were referred to a specialist for his "flat head". While we had asked our pediatrician about it at his 3 month appointment, he had said that we should wait and see if the flatness had gotten worse by his 6 month appointment. At his 6 month appointment there was a noticeable difference in both the head shape, his ears, and one of his eyes "drooping" a little lower than the other. Here are photos from earlier this summer when he was about 4 or 5 months old.
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Sam had slept on his back since birth as I was a strong believer in the "back to sleep" campaign. Immediately after his 6 month appointment we began putting him to sleep on his stomach and making sure he didn't spend any time laying on the back of his head. It has been about a month and we have not noticed any difference in the flatness after aggressive repositioning.
The final verdict was that Sam has Brachycephaly with Plagiocephaly and will need a helmet or DOC band to correct it. More information about this can be found here...http://www.cranialtech.com if you're interested. We should be receiving the DOC band either this week or early next week and will begin using it immediately for the next 5 or 6 months with the hopes that it will treat his condition and give him a perfectly rounded head in the end.
Matt and I have spent the past month or so feeling like horrible parents; embarrassed, and wondering what we could have done differently to prevent this. We are coming to terms with the fact that we did the best that we could and knew how to and that it is fixable and doesn't speak to who we are as parents. I like to think of it as a cast for Sam Man's head. We will have it on for a few months and then it will be done. Compared to actual diseases and various other things that could be wrong with my child, this is nothing.
This condition is not harmful to Sam or his brain growth. The helmet will not hurt him and after a few days he will actually get used to it. I have decided to decorate it will decals that I found online at Bling Your Band to help make it a little more fun and less "medical". http://i72.photobucket.com/albums/i183/bcforever213/Plagio-SaurusCollage.jpg And here is the link to the website that sells the various decals. http://www.blingyourband.com/
Subsequent posts will detail our adventures with Sam's diagnosis and treatment as well as other fun events that happen in our lives. My goal is to chronicle Sam's treatment in both pictures and blogs so we can look back to see how far he has come.
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